Tuesday, October 14, 2008

I am so sorry

I just haven't been able to write lately.

A 13 year old boy in our town choose to end his short precious life. He and C played in the neighborhood and all summer at the pool while growing up. I will never forget how he wore his "shark fins and goggles" to chase all the kids around the shallow end. I can't believe that his life was that bad. He was having anxiety at school and it has come out that there was major bullying.

I am so sorry for the family.

A dear friend that has been trying to have a baby for years suffered a miscarriage last week. She was 37 weeks pregnant, on bedrest and doing great. Placenta previa. before they could even get to the hospital it was over. A perfect baby boy.

I am so sorry for the family.

I took my aunt to the hospital last week to have a procedure on her back. The surgeon came out to let me know that she was in really bad shape and if she didn't change her ways (diabetes and an alcoholic) she would not live much longer.
"2- 3 years?", I asked.
"Try weeks", was his reply.
She is 64 years old and has a body of an 85 year old. She refuses to change and her son has washed his hands of the whole mess. Its up to me and Nana Judy to handle everything.
I am so sad for my family.

Not much in comparison, but huge in Paintboy's life.
PB's car got broken into and all of his camera equipment was stolen. He takes photographs in addition to painting. This is serious equipment, thousands of dollars. Lots of them.
This is a man that is never without his camera. He feels like a part of him is missing. I feel like I am going to vomit know that he will replace it all, very soon.

My perfect town has been violated
my peacful world has been invaded
and none of it is funny


13 comments:

AFRo said...

Oh Hair Girl. I am so sorry too. There are no other words.

clemsongirlandthecoach said...

HG, I had no idea about the photo stuff. If I can help pls. let me know.

((((hug))))

Mags said...

Too much loss and pain...I'm so sorry!!! My heart breaks, especially when babies and children are involved.

Somewhere Between Pinot and Pacifiers said...

Oh my goodness, when it rains it pours. We have had some similar things to happen in our community lately too. A local girl I knew was killed in a car accident last week. Hugs to you...I hope things look up.

Mom on the Run said...

That is so sad. I hadn't heard about that....unless it was that obit I read a couple of times and wondered what happened to that boy.

e.m. said...

So sad. I hope happier days are on their way to you, your community and your family.

Buford Betty said...

I am so very sorry! All of it so sad and the miscarriage just breaks my heart. I'll be praying for you...

The 5 Bickies said...

I hope things are looking up for you and those in your community.

Card Girl said...

too much loss. so so sorry.

Just Ask Beth said...

Dear God! It is a darn shame that these kids bully so much it drives a child to suicide, makes me so sad. Sorry to hear about your husbands equipment, I think you can make a claim on your ins though, not that that would help because it would drive up the premium maybe..

Mad About Plaid Girl said...

Man, that it so rough. I hope things get better for you. Sometimes it is so hard to understand why life has to be so sad!

The wife said...

I'm so sorry. I hope things start to look up for you soon.

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